Review of Kiran Desai's The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny
BOOKS REVIEW
Chaifry
9/4/20256 min read


Kiran Desai, born in New Delhi and a permanent U.S. resident, is a celebrated voice in contemporary literature, known for her incisive explorations of identity and displacement. Her debut, Hullabaloo in the Guava Orchard (1998), won the Betty Trask Award, while The Inheritance of Loss (2006) secured the Man Booker Prize and the National Book Critics Circle Award. Her latest novel, The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny (2025), longlisted for the 2025 Booker Prize and a Kirkus Prize finalist, has been hailed by Publishers Weekly and Kirkus Reviews as a sprawling yet intimate saga. Spanning nearly 688 pages, it traces the lives of two young
Indians navigating love, family, and diaspora across India and America. The novel’s thesis posits that loneliness, shaped by cultural dislocation, class, and familial expectations, is a universal condition that both isolates and binds individuals in a globalized world. It argues that personal and collective histories intertwine, demanding resilience to forge meaning. This book is a must-read because it serves as a wake-up call, exposing the ground reality of alienation while celebrating the human capacity to connect despite odds. Its lyrical prose and expansive scope make it essential for anyone grappling with identity in a world playing catch-up to belonging.
The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny opens with a vivid tableau: “The sun was still submerged in the wintry murk of dawn when Ba, Dadaji, and their daughter, Mina Foi, emerged upon the veranda to sip their tea” (Desai, 2025, p. 3). The narrative follows Sonia, an aspiring novelist returning to India after studying in Vermont, and Sunny, a struggling journalist in New York. Their lives, briefly entwined by a failed matchmaking attempt by their grandparents, converge again on an overnight train: “When Sonia and Sunny first glimpse each other on an overnight train, they are immediately captivated” (Desai, 2025, p. 7). The novel argues that loneliness, rooted in cultural and personal dislocation, shapes their search for identity: “The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny is the sweeping tale of two young people navigating the many forces that shape their lives” (Desai, 2025, p. 7).
Sonia, haunted by a toxic relationship with an older artist, fears a lingering curse: “She fears that she is haunted by a dark spell cast by an artist to whom she had once turned for intimacy and inspiration” (Desai, 2025, p. 7). Her return to India reveals familial tensions: “We are worried about Sonia. She’s fallen into a depression” (Desai, 2025, p. 15). Sunny, escaping his domineering mother and a violent clan, grapples with alienation in New York: “Sunny, a struggling journalist resettled in New York City, is attempting to flee his imperious mother” (Desai, 2025, p. 7). Their paths, marked by “the complicated bonds that link one generation to the next” (Desai, 2025, p. 7), reflect the novel’s exploration of country, class, and race.
Evidence for the thesis lies in the characters’ personal struggles and the novel’s historical sweep. Sonia’s isolation in Vermont mirrors her cultural displacement: “She says she is lonely” (Desai, 2025, p. 15). Sunny’s journalistic ambitions clash with his heritage: “Sunny’s mother Babita feels loneliness in another way as she waits for him to own up to his lies” (Desai, 2025, p. 18). The narrative weaves in magical realism, with a demonic dog plaguing Sonia: “A demonic dog which plagues one of the main characters” (Desai, 2025, p. 18). Historical context, from India’s post-Partition era to 9/11, grounds their stories: “Set in the 1990s, Desai opens the story to include both Sonia and Sunny’s families” (Desai, 2025, p. 3).
The novel’s sprawling cast and settings—Vermont’s snowy isolation, Brooklyn’s urban alienation, Delhi’s bustling families, and Goa’s beaches—illustrate varied loneliness: “Each setting becomes a meditation on different types of solitude” (Desai, 2025, p. 20). Sonia’s artistic struggles reflect self-censorship: “She’s warned early on that her fiction shouldn’t fall back on orientalist tropes” (Desai, 2025, p. 18). Sunny’s stint in a minstrel troupe, posing as a white man playing a Black man, underscores racial absurdity: “Never had a situation felt so absurd, surreal and ridiculous” (Desai, 2025, p. 201). Their intermittent romance, thwarted by past betrayals like Sonia’s ex, Ilan, highlights emotional barriers: “They continue to think of each other and each hold resentments towards Ilan” (Desai, 2025, p. 3).
Solutions emerge through resilience and connection. Sonia’s writing becomes a tool for self-discovery: “A writer itched and itched to put everything into a book” (Desai, 2025, p. 18). Sunny finds purpose in community: “They formed close ties with other refugees” (Desai, 2025, p. 46). The novel’s resolution, though open-ended, suggests hope in shared struggle: “Uncertain of their future, Sonia and Sunny embark on a search for happiness together” (Desai, 2025, p. 7). Desai’s vision, as noted by the Booker judges, is vast: “No detail, large or small, seems to escape Desai’s attention” (Desai, 2025, p. 1).
The novel’s strengths lie in its lyrical prose and expansive scope. Desai’s writing, described as “beautifully-written, acutely observed, and richly textured” (Desai, 2025, p. 6), evokes a sensory world, akin to Salman Rushdie’s vivid tapestries. The dual narrative of Sonia and Sunny, interwoven with family histories, creates a rich saga: “This novel about Indians in America becomes one about westernised Indians rediscovering their country” (Desai, 2025, p. 1). The exploration of loneliness is universal yet specific, capturing “the global epidemic of loneliness” (Desai, 2025, p. 4). Desai’s use of magical realism, like the demonic dog, adds depth without cliché: “The novel takes on an unusual form and doesn’t play out in an expected way” (Desai, 2025, p. 18).
The novel’s research depth, drawing from Desai’s diaspora experience in Jackson Heights, lends authenticity: “Desai lives in New York’s Jackson Heights, a predominantly South Asian immigrant neighbourhood” (Desai, 2025, p. 4). The intersectional lens—class, race, and cultural identity—is robust, as in Sonia’s struggle with orientalist expectations: “She starts to censor herself and feels self-conscious about how to express herself” (Desai, 2025, p. 18). The prose balances humor and tragedy, as in Sunny’s minstrel troupe episode: “The theatre of the absurd” (Desai, 2025, p. 202).
Weaknesses include pacing and focus. The 667-page length, while immersive, can feel unwieldy: “It felt like it wandered all over the place” (Desai, 2025, p. 10). The vast cast, though richly drawn, occasionally dilutes emotional intimacy, particularly for secondary characters like Sonia’s parents: “They seldom appear directly in the narrative” (Desai, 2025, p. 301). Intersectional analysis, while strong on race and class, skims gender dynamics, unlike Arundhati Roy’s nuanced portrayals in The God of Small Things. The magical realist elements, though compelling, may jar readers expecting a realist saga, as Kirkus Reviews notes: “A sharp chronicle of status climbing and its consequences” (Desai, 2025, p. 5) but occasionally uneven. The open-ended resolution may frustrate some, though it aligns with the theme of ongoing struggle.
The verdict is overwhelmingly positive. The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny is a masterful, immersive novel, recommended for readers of literary fiction and diaspora narratives. Its minor flaws don’t diminish its power to provoke reflection on belonging and identity.
Why Indian Youth Readers Must Read This Book
For Indian youth, navigating the pressures of rote learning and societal expectations, The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny resonates deeply. The education system’s grind, with exams like JEE and NEET, mirrors Sonia’s self-censorship: “She’s warned early on that her fiction shouldn’t fall back on orientalist tropes” (Desai, 2025, p. 18). The book is a wake-up call, exposing the ground reality of losing one’s voice to conformity, urging youth to reclaim their individuality.
The job market’s fierce competition parallels Sunny’s alienation: “Sunny, a struggling journalist, is attempting to flee his imperious mother” (Desai, 2025, p. 7). Youth, often blamed for systemic issues like unemployment, will relate to his struggle to belong. Societal norms—marrying within caste or pursuing “respectable” careers—echo the novel’s familial pressures: “The complicated bonds that link one generation to the next” (Desai, 2025, p. 7). The emphasis on community, “They formed close ties with other refugees” (Desai, 2025, p. 46), inspires youth to find strength in peer groups or activism, challenging the pressure to keep playing catch-up. Desai’s call to confront loneliness, “A lot of readers will understand the global epidemic of loneliness” (Desai, 2025, p. 4), resonates with India’s youth, who face similar struggles in balancing tradition and modernity. This book is a rallying cry for resilience and connection.
The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny is a luminous exploration of alienation and belonging, blending lyrical prose with profound insight. Desai’s expansive yet intimate narrative captures the human struggle for identity in a fractured world. For Indian youth, it’s a powerful lens on resisting conformity and finding community. These novel demands to be read, urging readers to confront loneliness and embrace connection.